You Could Have At Least Lied

When you’re apart from someone, there is nothing else you would like to ask or to know but for the assurance of something like "you’ll be in my heart always". But some people take it for granted, while others take it as an inspiration to hold on. But which of these two usually happens? It all depends.

In a relationship, a woman needs love, care, and respect the most of all. With men, they need love, acceptance, and trust most of all.

When each doesn’t get these three basic big things, the rest could hardly follow.

The question is, with a "distance relationship", which is harder to do or to be constant and spontaneous with — giving what women need or what men need?

Or which is easier to give in a long-distance relationship, trust or care? acceptance or respect?

You do the math.

But for most, it takes two to tango.

If you’re the woman, you’ve been cared but isn’t respected … how would that be?

… and …

If you’re the man, you’ve been accepted as you are fully but can’t be trusted … how would that be?

Draining, isn’t it? It would hardly work.

So, all it takes is sacrifice and take the gamble … and yes, to hell with the consequences …

For isn’t it more wonderful to think what love can do? But yet we fear for the worse. So, we doubt.

But how about keeping our doubts to ourselves and rather make it as a secret mind-set and choose on risking (even lying), with fingers crossed, by saying we trust each other and that we want the commitment? Would it work? For others, perhaps.

But taking it for granted is the fear that had be looming over anyone’s thoughts.

That’s why there’s sacrifice.

And that is what we sometimes miss, we lack, we don’t see, or feel.

So, should we take it as a challenge, or should we let go and accept that with this … it will all end up to nothing?

Well, either one wouldn’t want the latter option if both have the mutual feeling.

So, would you lie and say, "I trust you … blah blah blah"?

It could work for a while, I presume. But … truth sets us always free.

The truth is there but sometime we lack faith to see and hold on to that truth.

So, I guess lying wouldn’t be good at all, FAITH could.

Smile.